Photo diary: Sunday in Long Island City

June 30, 2013

Last weekend Andy and I had brunch with Mathew and Joey in Long Island City at Sage General Store, famous for its Bacon Brunch. Bacon with everything! Yummy discovery. Plus, it turned out to be just a couple of blocks away from MOMA P.S. 1, a museum I’ve heard about as long as I’ve been in New York but never visited. This was clearly the day! In the event, I found the space very interesting — literally, a former elementary school — but the artwork for the most part mundane and unremarkable, with a few exceptions. I did enjoy Ian Cheng’s Entropy Wrangler, a digital screen wriggling with CGI critters submerged in a shallow bed of water alongside various cel phones and other electronic devices. I also enjoyed James Turrell’s peaceful Meeting, which a young child viewing it with her mother accurately described as “a big hole.”

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But my favorite piece on display was Pawel Althamer’s Brodno People:

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When I left PS 1, I noticed across the street a curiously graffiti-covered building that looked like something you’d stumble across in San Francisco’s Mission District:

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And then a block away I noticed a dead end block that emanated an intriguing amount of energy:

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Et voila, I found myself in 5 Pointz Aerosol Arts Center, a mecca for graffiti artists that has apparently been operating continuously since 1993, unknown to ignorant me:

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Quote of the day: EXPECTATIONS

June 30, 2013

EXPECTATIONS

None of us at Twitter thought during the earthquake and ensuing tsunami in Fukushima, Japan, that our service would be a great alternative communication platform if the mobile networks in Japan were spotty in the aftermath. And certainly none of us even hoped, let alone considered, that our platform would be one of those used to organize protests across the Middle East, in Tunisia and Egypt during the Arab Spring. Here’s the amazing thing about what I’ve observed when I’ve witnessed all those things. Not only can you not plan the impact you’re going to have, you often won’t recognize it even while you’re having it. …

From here on out, you have to switch gears. You’re no longer meeting and exceeding expectations. There are no expectations. There’s no script. When you’re doing what you love to do, you become resilient, because that’s the habit you create for yourself. You create a habit of taking chances on yourself and making bold choices in service to doing what you love. If, on the other hand, you do what’s expected of you, or what you’re supposed to do, and things go poor or chaos ensues — as it surely will — you will look to external sources for what to do next, because that will be the habit you’ve created for yourself. You’ll be standing there, frozen, on the stage of your own life.

— Richard Costolo, CEO of Twitter

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Photo diary: roaming around Rome

June 26, 2013

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After the week in Tuscany, I spent a day and a night in Rome, where I met up with Michael Mele, his husband Andy, and his old friend Antonio in Piazza Navona.

After the week in Tuscany, I spent a day and a night in Rome, where I met up with Michael Mele, his husband Andy, and his old friend Antonio in Piazza Navona.

With his friend Pier Paolo, Antonio has started a business giving guided tours (see romearoundrome.com) -- two of the couples from That's Amore! hired him for their introduction to the Eternal City.

With his friend Pier Paolo, Antonio has started a business giving guided tours (see romearoundrome.com) — two of the couples from That’s Amore! hired him for their introduction to the Eternal City.

Just walking around the neighborhood with Antonio is a treat -- he pointed out that in the Baroque era, street lights couldn't just be lamps -- they had to have painted portraits and putti and wrought-iron embellishments

Just walking around the neighborhood with Antonio is a treat — he pointed out that in the Baroque era, street lights couldn’t just be lamps — they had to have painted portraits and putti and wrought-iron embellishments.

We stopped into a church nearby, Basilica di Sant'Agostino, that just happens to house a famous and controversial Caravaggio painting "Madonna of Loreto" -- controversial for three reasons: 1) smack in the center of the picture is a pilgrim's rear end; 2) his dirty feet face the viewers; and 3) the Madonna is hanging out in a doorway dandling her infant like a common hooker.

We stopped into a church nearby, Basilica di Sant’Agostino, that just happens to house a famous and controversial Caravaggio painting “Madonna of Loreto” — controversial for three reasons:    1) smack in the center of the picture is a pilgrim’s rear end; 2) his dirty feet face the viewers; and 3) the Madonna is hanging out in a doorway dandling her infant like a common hooker.

We took a walk across the bridge to Castel Sant'Angelo, the tomb of Emperor Hadrian -- opera buffs know the location because Tosca leaps to her death from the ramparts.

We took a walk across the bridge to Castel Sant’Angelo, the tomb of Emperor Hadrian — opera buffs know the location because Tosca leaps to her death from the ramparts.

Antonio pointed out the statues along the bridge, all created by students of Bernini and reflecting his extremely sensual style -- swirling dimensionality, bared flesh, ecstatic facial expressions that verge on orgasmic

Antonio pointed out the statues along the bridge, all created by students of Bernini and reflecting his extremely sensual style — swirling dimensionality, bared flesh, ecstatic facial expressions that verge on orgasmic.

Walking to dinner in Trastevere, Antonio pointed out one of the oldest synagogues in Rome hidden away on a side street, detectable only by the Hebrew lettering still visible on the middle column (click photo to enlarge).

Walking to dinner in Trastevere, Antonio pointed out one of the oldest synagogues in Rome hidden away on a side street, detectable only by the Hebrew lettering still visible on the middle column (click photo to enlarge).

 

We had dinner in Trastevere with friends from all over, including Dino and Michael from That's Amore!

At dinner friends showed up from all over, including Dino and Michael from That’s Amore!

Our friend Graziano showed up on a motorcycle with Andrea, who had just spoken at Rome's Gay Pride Rally.

Our friend Graziano showed up on a motorcycle with Andrea, who had just spoken at Rome’s Gay Pride Rally.

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And then a bunch of us met again for breakfast in Piazza Navona before I headed off to the airport back to New York saying "Arrivederci, Roma!"

And then a bunch of us met again for breakfast in Piazza Navona before I headed off to the airport to fly back to New York saying “Arrivederci, Roma!”


Photo diary: THAT’S AMORE! part 4

June 26, 2013

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Rainy afternoon in Tuscany. #luxuryproblem

Rainy afternoon in Tuscany. #luxuryproblem

on a clear day, the light gilds everything

on a clear day, the light gilds everything

the view from my bedroom

the view from my bedroom

the mulberry tree in the yard dripped with ripe fruit

the mulberry tree in the yard dripped with ripe fruit

some afternoons demanded a dip in the pool

some afternoons demanded a dip in the pool

for a first-time visitor to The Boot, Dino dressed molto Italiano

for a first-time visitor to The Boot, Dino dressed molto Italiano

but then this was a pretty stylish group in general

but then this was a pretty stylish group in general

the last afternoon we walked to the nearby town of Mercatale for lunch at Mimmi's

the last afternoon we walked to the nearby town of Mercatale for lunch at Mimmi’s

At dinnertime more singing

At dinnertime more singing

and more singing

and more singing

excellent meals prepared primarily by Karen

excellent meals prepared primarily by Karen

we even got her to sing a couple of songs from her hometown (Rome)

we even got her to sing a couple of songs from her hometown (Rome)

 

a dreamy ending to a dreamy week

a dreamy ending to a dreamy week

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 


Quote of the day: OPINIONS

June 26, 2013

OPINIONS

A friend once shared with me one of the aphorisms of 12-step recovery programs: “What other people think of you is none of your business.” Like a lot of wisdom, this sounds at first suspiciously similar to idiotic nonsense; obviously what other people think of you is your business, it’s your main job in life to try to control it, to do tireless P.R. and spin control for yourself. Every woman who ever went out with you must pine for you forever. Those who rejected you must regret it. You must be loved, respected — above all, taken seriously! They who mocked you will rue the day! The problem is that this is insane — the psychology of dictators who regard all dissent as treason, and periodically order purges to ensure unquestioning loyalty. It’s no way to run a country.

The operative fallacy here is that we believe that unconditional love means not seeing anything negative about someone, when it really means pretty much the opposite: loving someone despite their infuriating flaws and essential absurdity. “Do I want to be loved in spite of?” Donald Barthelme writes in his story “Rebecca” about a woman with green skin. “Do you? Does anyone? But aren’t we all, to some degree?”

We don’t give other people credit for the same interior complexity we take for granted in ourselves, the same capacity for holding contradictory feelings in balance, for complexly alloyed affections, for bottomless generosity of heart and petty, capricious malice. We can’t believe that anyone could be unkind to us and still be genuinely fond of us, although we do it all the time.

Years ago a friend of mine had a dream about a strange invention; a staircase you could descend deep underground, in which you heard recordings of all the things anyone had ever said about you, both good and bad. The catch was, you had to pass through all the worst things people had said before you could get to the highest compliments at the very bottom. There is no way I would ever make it more than two and a half steps down such a staircase, but I understand its terrible logic: if we want the rewards of being loved we have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of being known.

— Tim Kreider

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