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Events: DADDY LOVER GOD update

November 9, 2023

It’s a busy week in the world of Daddy Lover God: a sacred intimate journey !

Not long after reading at a sports bar on the Upper West Side to a mostly straight (though attentive) audience, I had the pleasure of appearing as a guest for a joint meeting of two gay male nudist groups in Washington, D.C., NoCover and Buddies23. My friend Frederic, who’s a member of both groups, cooked up the idea of this salon as a way for the two groups to collaborate, and he and his two handsome roommates (Stephen and Mateo) hosted the event, which was a lot of fun. Let it be known that I am open to being invited to visit other gay male nudist groups.

I also had the honor of returning to the Body Electric School’s “Erotic Liberation Podcast” for my second appearance. Host Craig Cullinane is a dear friend and an excellent Body Electric instructor, and his interviewing skills are stellar. Questioning me about the book, my practice, and the concept of sacred intimacy, he elicited from me about as much eloquence and clarity as I have ever been able to muster. I’m quite proud of this interview. Check it out here and let me know what you think.

This Saturday afternoon, November 11 at 4pm, I will be doing an event at MMX (Male Massage Exchange) in New York City, reading from Daddy Lover God and facilitating a conversation about sacred intimacy and sexual healing work. MMX is a very cool membership organization (membership is free) that serves primarily as a massage studio, offering classes, play parties, and professional treatments. I have taught classes there, the Body Electric School has run workshops in the space, and the NYC community of Sacred Brothers organizes monthly gatherings there. This event is intended to expand MMX’s offerings in the direction of community socializing — the salon idea, not unlike the meeting in Washington, DC. Admission is free, but you’ll want to register here. MMX will provide snacks and a pay-by-donation bar, and I will have copies of the book available for purchase and signing. Come through and say hello!

Events: MUST LOVE MEMOIR reading series, October 10, 2023

October 8, 2023

Krystal Orwig invited me to be a guest at her Must Love Memoir monthly reading series devoted to personal stories. I will be reading from my latest book, Daddy Lover God, along with Felice Cohen and Minda Honey. The reading happens Tuesday, October 10, at 7:30 pm at Jake’s Dilemma, a sports bar on the Upper West Side with a cozy event room in the basement. Come say hello! Free admission. Good selection of beers!

EVENTS: “Mission 23: Celebration of the Possible”

April 14, 2023

Easton Mountain, the gay retreat center in upstate New York, will celebrate its 23rd anniversary with a weekend centered on celebrating the work of Joseph Kramer. I’m delighted that I will get to take part in saluting the founder of the Body Electric School and one of the most influential teachers of my life. Look who else: Betty Martin! David Dunn Bauer! JoJo Bear! Join us for the festivities! For more information and to register, go here.

Events: COME BACK TO YOUR SENSES, a summer retreat in Tuscany for gay men

January 14, 2016

Have you ever been to Italy? If not, maybe it’s time. If so, do you miss it? I do. That’s why I’m going back this summer with my friend and colleague John Ballew to host

COME BACK TO YOUR SENSES – Cultivating Sensuality in Tuscany
A workshop for gay men
June 11-18, 2016

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About the Program:

In today’s fast-paced world, hard-working people spend their days harnessed to computers and electronic devices. We believe it’s spiritually rewarding to take time to nourish yourself, to explore and refine simple pleasures. We invite you to come back to your senses.

Presented under the auspices of our friends at Il Chiostro, this retreat offers more than simply the opportunity to get away from ordinary life. We are inspired by the ancient philosophy of Epicureanism. Dating from the 4th century BC, Epicureanism taught that the pleasures of the senses offer a verifiable standard of truth and therefore can serve to cultivate wisdom, justice, and happiness.

During the week-long retreat, we will spend time cultivating all of the senses. You will be invited to really see what you see, taste what you taste, smell what you smell, hear what you hear, and touch what you touch – really slow down, savor your sensory impressions and replenish your skills of discernment.

In a setting that is both safe and inviting to gay men, we will help you remember the joy of life in a body!

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“Come Back to Your Senses” is a rich but gently structured adventure. Our days together will alternate between two different kinds of activity:

1) interactive group exercises designed to help us slow down, engage our sensual mechanisms, recalibrate our awareness of what’s important in our lives, activate our creativity, and cultivate deeper intimacy with ourselves and others; and

2) expeditions to nearby towns such as Montalcino and Pienza or destinations such as the Abbey at Sant’Antimo or the spa Bagno Vignoni.

There will be time to relax and enjoy the beautiful Tuscan setting, and every evening we will sit down for a leisurely delicious multi-course dinner prepared just for us. There’s something really special about sharing these activities in Italy with a soulful group of open-hearted gay men. The size of the group is limited to 10 participants.

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Accommodations: The program will take place at Il Chiostro’s favorite new location, San Giovanni d’Asso in Tuscany, 40 km southeast of Siena. We will stay in an ancient farmhouse called “Il Tribbio,” which was completely refurbished in 2005. This large house has five double bedrooms, each of which has a private bathroom and air-conditioning. Outside there is a loggia with panoramic views of the surrounding area known as the Val d’Orcia. a swimming pool, and large outdoor spaces for gathering or relaxing. In front of the house there is a large, beautiful garden with olive and pomegranate trees and a wide grassland, from which you can enjoy a wonderful view of the rolling Sienese hills.

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Il Tribbio is located in a peaceful countryside 10 minutes by foot (1 km) from the romantic village of San Giovanni d’Asso, which has a beautiful 14th century castle, a charming tiny 11th century Romanesque church, a crazy botanical garden called Il Bosco della Ragnaia (curated and owned by an American painter), and a truffle museum (most of the truffles that come from Italy originate here).

Price: $2,595 p/p

Includes:

  • Double room with ensuite bathroom and shower
  • Daily breakfast and dinner, including wine
  • Workshop tuition, daily experiences facilitated by the instructors
  • Selected excursions with the group

Price does not include:

  • Airfare
  • Lunch
  • Independent meals and sight-seeing

To register:  A non-refundable deposit of $500 is required to secure your spot in the workshop.  Payment can be made online here with a credit card, or you can follow the instructions to send in your registration and payment by mail.  Once we receive your deposit we will send you a formal Registration Confirmation with further information about the program.  You will receive 2-3 other correspondences by email prior to the workshop with information about Italy, a supplies list and an electronic invoice for the balance.  Final Balance is due by May 1st.

Contact us for more information:  info@ilchiostro.com or speak to the registration staff live at 800-990-3506. If you have any questions, feel free to contact either me or John Ballew directly.

Events: Gamelan Kusuma Laras at Roulette

November 16, 2015

Gamelan Kusuma Laras, the Javanese music ensemble I’ve been playing with for several years, will give a concert Saturday night at Roulette, the prestigious new-music venue in Brooklyn. Javanese gamelan is stately, meditative, polyphonic, sometimes shockingly rowdy, quite exotic and not for every taste. You can check out samples online but you can never really get a true sense of gamelan music except by experiencing it live. This concert officially begins at 8 pm but we will start playing at 7:45 with a couple of pieces traditionally used to welcome the audience. Then we’ll play three long-ish pieces, one of them composed by our music director, the phenomenal I. M. Harjito. And the show ends with a dance piece featuring guest performers Anang Totok Dwiantoro and Triwi Harjito in full costume and makeup. Check it out and let me know what you think.

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