Archive for June, 2012

Photo diary: all roads lead to David

June 13, 2012

a familiar sight in Astoria from the Q train

spied on Sixth Avenue from my bicycle

David and Gareth are going to Italy in October, and they invited Andy and me over to confer.

We ordered sandwiches from Sfilatino, a new Italian takeout joint on 57th Street, and went to Gareth’s house where he DJ’d an appropriate playlist (Connie Francis and Nilla Pizzi), David made Negronis, and we opined heavily and show pictures of Italy on my iPad.

The storefront that used to be Compusa looks like a David Zinn set these days.

The women who work at the post office were all atwitter about the new Miles Davis stamps, so of course I had to have some.

Quote of the day: TRAVEL

June 13, 2012

TRAVEL

Photo diary: the week in review

June 10, 2012

Gamelan Kusuma Laras in rehearsal at the Indonesian Consulate

Another New York landmark disappears: Tanti Baci, the archtypical Village Italian restaurant

Andy and I had dinner with Tim Whiteside on his three-day stop in New York on his way home to Hawaii from a month in Argentina. I met Tim in 1992 on Fire Island; Andy met him independently on the swim team in 1999.

Puerto Rico Day at the West Side YMCA

Quote of the day: ABUSE

June 10, 2012

ABUSE

As [lawyer Paul] Mones said: “It’s counterintuitive, but sexual abuse emotionally binds the child closer to the person who has harmed him, setting him up for a life plagued by suspicion and confusion, because he will never be sure who he can really trust. And in my experience, this is by far the worst consequence of sexual abuse.” That’s one reason, he said, why those few victims who ever speak out at all tend to do so only after the abuser is dead or dying: telling the truth while the other person is still strong enough to deny it, or to blame the accuser, is just too terrifying.

— Amos Kamil, “Prep School Predators: The Horace Mann School’s Secret History of Sexual Abuse,” New York Times Magazine, June 10, 2010

Playlist: iPod shuffle, 6/10/12

June 10, 2012

“Fok Julie Naaiers,” Die Antwoord
“Favorite Waste of Time,” Bette Midler
“All for Myself,” Sufjan Stevens
“Roll It,” Lobsterdust
“Gay Bar,” Electric Six
“Night Time,” the XX
“The Beginning of Memory,” Laurie Anderson
“Date Line,” Loudon Wainwright III
“Yvette in English,” Joni Mitchell
“Childhood,” Dusted
“Fortune,” Little Dragon
“Acorn Factory,” the Dodos
“Talk to Me Like the Sea,” Everything But the Girl
“When I Go Out,” Little Dragon
“Long White Dress,” Tracey Thorn


“Belles,” Andrew Bird
“Serpents,” Sharon Von Etten
“Blind Man,” T-Bone Burnett
“Into the Black,” Chromatics
“The Ghost Inside,” Broken Bells
“Coquet Coquette,” Of Montreal
“Holland,” Sufjan Stevens
“Magic Tricks,” Tiger Waves
“No Way to Be,” Teddy Thompson
“Overrated,” Adam Cohen
“2-1,” Imogen Heap
“Pine Moon,” Feist
“There is No Greater Love,” the Four Freshmen
“U Make a Ninja Wanna Fuck,” Die Antwoord
[the latter two of which are, of course, more or less the same song]