Archive for May, 2010

Quote of the day: ROLE-PLAYING

May 24, 2010

ROLE-PLAYING

There’s no such thing as a pushy bottom — only a top with a weak agenda.

— Mr. S Leather newsletter

Photo diary: 5/20/10

May 21, 2010

Andy and I celebrated our first anniversary today

For the occasion, Roman took us to lunch at Seasonal, the zehr elegant (not to say foofy) Viennese restaurant on West 58th Street, where the spaetzle comes served like this

Every dish, like this pike, is an object d'art and practically demands applause on arrival

The piece de resistance was our handsome waiter, who is from Graz, pictured here with Roman

Quote of the day: DESIRE

May 20, 2010

DESIRE

At the core of each person’s nature are unique seeds of desiring, which flourish through the development of personality, not through any suppression of it. We are not to become pale renunciate ciphers with no wantings. The animals of desiring, the rooster of lust, the duck of urgency, the horse of passion, the peacock of wanting recognition, the crow of acquiring things, the lion of majesty, the zebra of absence (I made that one up), these are not to be thwarted but lived, transmuted, and incorporated. This is the art of forming a personality. Only when we live the animal powers do we learn that those satisfactions are not what we truly wanted. There’s more, and we are here to follow the mysteries of longing beyond where they lead. The purpose of desire is to perfect the longings, for at the core of longing is the Friend, Christ, Krishna, the emptiness, whatever it was that Igiargajuk, the Eskimo shaman, was when he came back from forty nights on the ice floes with one sentence, “There is nothing to fear in the universe.” The great love at the center of longing has no fear in it.

— Coleman Barks, Rumi the Book of Love

Playlist: iPod shuffle, 5/17/10

May 19, 2010

“No Mermaid,” Joan Baez
“Jailhouse Tears,” Lucinda Williams
“Sukie in the Graveyard,” Belle and Sebastian
“I’m Afraid of Japan,” Final Fantasy
“You Can Call Me Al (FTW Extended Mix),” DJ Rebel & FTW
“How My Heart Behaves,” Feist
“A House on Sand,” David Byrne
“A Porter’s Love Song to a Chambermaid,” Mildred Bailey & Red Norvo

“Piggy Mask,” the Roches
“He Can Only Hold Her,” Amy Winehouse
“Some Lessons,” Melody Gardot
“Sweet Old World,” Emmylou Harris
“I Want to Fly/Slave Dream,” Ofra Haza
“Believe,” Cher
“The Thrill Is Gone,” Sarah Vaughan
“I Pick Up the Phone,” Issa
“Boy with a Coin,” Iron & Wine
“Old Mr. Drew,” Molly Hagar
“Feels Like Home,” Randy Newman
“Cherish,” Deneice Williams
“Quiet Nights,” Diana Krall
“Where Do you Go,” Lhasa De Sela
“Library,” Final Fantasy
“Royal Eyes,” Sachal Vasandani
“Tout Doucement,” Feist

By the way…I love that I’ve been able to supply links so that readers of my blog can hear most of the songs on my playlists, thanks to Lala.com. Sadly, the site is shutting down as of May 31, 2010. Get it while you can! Lala was bought by Apple, which will presumably adapt the technology for iTunes. Will it mean getting to hear entire cuts for free? We’ll see, baby, we’ll see….

Quote of the day: MAYOR

May 19, 2010

MAYOR

Q: Did you meet Lady Gaga when you both attended the Met Gala?

Mayor Bloomberg: We were wearing, actually, the same outfit that night. it was pretty embarrassing for her.

— Intelligencer,  New York Magazine